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getting out of a date??

svelteslacks  said about 5 years ago  or at  12:44PM on Friday, December 1 2006 in chat

the man who comes in to deliver lollies in our office just asked me on a date, and i didn't know what to say, so i stammered and sort of said yes.

then when i tried to pretend and tell him i was seeing someone, he wouldn't let me say no.

he is calling me next week after he grabbed a business card from my desk.

how can i get out of this?


RoastOxCrisps  said about 5 years ago:


Ohyeah  said about 5 years ago:

be straight up. but nicely.


anonymous  said about 5 years ago:

change your identity and move state.


aloha  said about 5 years ago:

haha.


loveisafist  said about 5 years ago:

BAH HA HA.

awww, sveltes. tell him that fisty, yr beloved girlfriend will be mighty pissed off if some 'man' tries to steal her woman.


RayRay  said about 5 years ago:

dont answer the call.

Text him and say look you surprised. but "I'm Just Not INTO You - we still want lollies though"


littlearch  said about 5 years ago:

take fisty with you on the date and dress in leather

no, don't, he'll probably like that


anonymous  said about 5 years ago:

two words:

stunt double


svelteslacks  said about 5 years ago:

he is mentally disabled, so i want to say no in a nice way that doesn't hurt his feelings too deeply.


triptolemus  said about 5 years ago:

Just be honest & let him know you're not interested sveltes....deliver it with a smile to soften the blow & he'll live I'm sure.


spaceman1  said about 5 years ago:

its quite easy. if he's so forward with you about asking you out, there's no reason why you can't be equally forward and say 'sorry, i'm not interested'.

he can't force you to come out, and there's no sense in pretending to be nice to someone if you don't like them and if your only connection to them is the fact they deliver lollies to your work. serioush.


questionmark  said about 5 years ago:

dude, free lollies!!!


RayRay  said about 5 years ago:

everyone needs their feelings hurt, it toughens you up, gives you character.


themarshall  said about 5 years ago:

But think of all the free lollies you'll miss out on???


GnomeChomsky  said about 5 years ago:

Aw man, of all the men in the world you're about to break the heart of the one who supplies you with LOLLIES!

You can say goodbye to quality jellybeans now...


spaceman1  said about 5 years ago:

'i'm currently seeing somebody' is polite and quick.


RayRay  said about 5 years ago:

People learn from their mistakes.


themarshall  said about 5 years ago:

ha ha! nice one questionmark!


liamsnice  said about 5 years ago:

tell him your genital herpes are flaring up and you dont feel like leaving the house, then say he is welcome to come to your place for a romantic evening. i doubt you will here back from him.


RayRay  said about 5 years ago:

You would be his educator.


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Uncle Mick  said about 5 years ago:

Mean bitch. Ya never even gave him a chance.


freaksandgeeks  said about 5 years ago:

haha

but kudos svelty. I've been there. I guess I always have this fear they will get angry if I say no.


littlearch  said about 5 years ago:

heartbreaker

:(

oh the guilt


svelteslacks  said about 5 years ago:

hey uncle mick... fuck off!


frenk  said about 5 years ago:

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svelteslacks  said about 5 years ago:

that's terrible frenk.


Uncle Mick  said about 5 years ago:

just sayin... its what inside that counts... don't hate people cos their different....


svelteslacks  said about 5 years ago:

fuck off angelic... i didn't say no because he was mentally disabled. that wasn't even in my first post about this. i said no because i wasn't interested.

don't make me out to be some fucking cold hearted bitch, cause you know that is far from who i am.

don't fucking hide behind another identity either to say shit like that either. asshole.


Uncle Mick  said about 5 years ago:

settle gretel. If your conscience was clear, then you wouldn't have to explain yourself.


svelteslacks  said about 5 years ago:

my conscience is clear you fuck.

i don't appreciate you trolling your ass through here and calling me a mean bitch. that's why i am going off.

keep it up angelic and don't you ever have the fucking nerve to speak to me again.


Uncle Mick  said about 5 years ago:

OK. Sorry. Whoops I spoke to you. Sorry again.


wipey  said about 5 years ago:

when I was 17 I went


PelicanGodOfJupiter  said about 5 years ago:

Woah sveltes... sucked into trolling! I didn't think you'd be the type?

({)

There there!


kuroneko  said about 5 years ago:

penny drops

ah, so that explains why I thought Uncle Mick was an annoying fucktard.


Uncle Mick  said about 5 years ago:

This isn't about me. Its about the owner of a lonely heart.


hiponion  said about 5 years ago:

what he said is lovely, svelts. i would have been flattered.


the power of 666  said about 5 years ago:

for the parroty fred


svelteslacks  said about 5 years ago:

nah pelican... not sucked in to trolling.

just pissed off that someone i have defended on here more than once has the fucking nerve to stir shit up and call me a mean bitch while wearing their troll hat.

fuck that shit.


PelicanGodOfJupiter  said about 5 years ago:

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hiponion  said about 5 years ago:

like that troll hat, svelte?


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