Tim_Marben said about 1 year ago or at 12:06PM on Tuesday, August 3 2010 in stupidity
My missus is interrailing through Europe, and she sucked face with some Croatian bloke.
I can't pretent that I didn't think this would happen, but I still feel physically sick every time I imagine someone touching her... putting his tongue where only I should...
I trust her, and trust her story, so don't bother telling me she's a sluzza.
This is a thread for other people who (like me) actually realise they're in love because they're so hurt from something shitty like this.
You don't have to love someone to be hurt by infidelity. I think it's admirable that she told you.
All the best, Tim.
so if she doesnt make it obvious (do it in front of you) & is honest (tells you afterwards) it is ok?
hold on there but miserable, dude said he only realised now that he loves her, but she is his missus... that's a bit confusing to me
me thinks the case of he who snoozes loses applies in this instance
sorry to be harsh man, but awesome people are a rare find, awesome people who you get on with are even rarer
gotta nail that shit down yo
why didn't you go with her tim?
It's not ok, but it's better than finding out from another source. The fact that he would probably have never found out if she didn't spill implies that she feels guilty and cares about him.
Is kissing really cheating? Did she tell you because she loves you and wants to be honest and she was drunk and you weren't around? Eastern European guys can be pretty uh - forward.
Its good that she told you, sort of. Not as good as not doing it in the first place.
Matter of opinion, Peaches, but I say yes.
Stop thinking about it, timmy.
sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but the o/s thing is irrelevant. it's just an easy excuse. fact is, she kissed someone else, which she knew was not acceptable in your relationship - highlighted by the fact that she told you. my guess is, she's telling you so you break up with her, cos she's too weak to break up with you. And if you thought this would happen, what does that say about the relationship in the first place?
piss ant, amateur psychology, DANNA
the only way to deal with this in a rational adult way is to go out tonight, get fucked up and sleep with whoever moves.
I once commited an infidelity. I told my missus at teh time because I think, deep down, I was bored with the relationship. It didn't make me feel any better and it's still something I'm ashamed of cos it's not really in my make-up. We decided to keep at it and endure 6 more months of misery before ending it.
However, it would never have happened if it wasn't for copious amounts of booze/amphetamines/narrow Richmond loss.
So, it's hard to say.
Either way, you've got a right to be aggrieved. Majorly.
dont forget pony in that reasoning
not irrelevant. backpacking around europe + alcohol + sleazy guys = no surprise.
it was probably a mistake. she didn't fuck anybody as far as you know. only you know how strong the relationship is and whether its worth getting upset about. if it happened to me. yeh i'd feel shit, but i wouldn't take it too seriously. i'd have a good discussion though.
It depends on how long she's overseas. Three months or more and it's acceptable. Reprehensible, but acceptable.
she's found someone better....get on with it.
If you wanna stay with her, just be positive. Don't try to make her feel guilty. Forget about it.
I don't even know why I'm in this thread, but:
that made it all worthwhile. :D
I think it's shitty that she told you. You would never have known otherwise, and now you have to be completely preoccupied with it and question her trustworthiness. That's unfair. She should have worn the guilt silently and learnt from it.
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poker face
this one time my girl was working in a real estate agent and maybe it was my southern drawl or skinny white boy wimpy style but I found out was cheatin on me with her fat arse boss so I rang a TV show and they laid a trap for that bitch and her boss and I was like ''Way to go Arlene HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO ME!'' and she was all like ''CALM DOWN RANDY YOU'RE MAKING A FOOL OF YOURSELF!'' and I was all like ''YOU'RE MAKING A FOOL OF ME BABY I LOVE YOU!'' while her boss tried to slip quietly away but the TV guy was all up in his fat face like ''What do you have to say for yourself?'' but he just drove off like some shameful skunk. Then I broke up with Arlene. Then they gave me a makeover and I felt so good man.
http://youtu.be/x35kmFM9nVk
fuck i love that cracked out shitty show.
cue
Me too loady. It should get another run on one of the multi channels here. It's the sort of fare thats perfectly suited to a 10:30pm slot on 7mate.
''I know he doesn't really love me, and I know that I'm going to get hurt''
''So why do it? Why put yourself and his family through it if you know there will be negative consequences''
''Because I love him''
lulz
YIPPY KA YE MOTHERFUCKER!
Oh god, this is gold: http://youtu.be/nbXOfTjek7o
Remember when the host of the show got stabbed by one of the cheaters?
Hahah yeah that was sick.
Sucks to be you, Tommy Grand
Wait, what was the other host's name? Was it him?
Joey Greco i think.
I can't believe there hasn't been a ''Being Shitted On'' parody thread yet.
Shat*
YES
Ahh. My earlier post read like shotgun wedding stylez... Was trying to say I got burned, left her, later found a girl who makes me feel awesome. Dated for around 5 years before getting married.
being burned can lead to beauty....
hahahahahahahahahahahaha you sick fuck
Yep, classic. I'll pay that. Completely fucked, but brilliant.
Misspoppin and I were discussing just the other day whether there was porn for people who have a burns victim fetish?
I have this believe that I'm not that original, so someone else has conceived it and wanked to it already.