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Cougars, men and the age gap question

I_AteAllYourBees  said about 3 years ago  or at  2:21PM on Wednesday, November 19 2008 in chat

If you're to analyse the current sexual zeitgeist then you'd immediately notice that Cougars are out and about in full force. Which is great news for young blokes since men seem to love and revel in dating older women. They think they've scored the sexual jackpot: the ultimate ''catch'' who is more experienced and better rehearsed than they'll ever be. Hence they treat these women like a princess, adorn them with gifts, lavish them with compliments and are never too tired to perform in the sack. Besides, as they say, women peak sexually about 40, men at 25. So it's a match made in amorous dating heaven.

So much so that there are now specific websites and speed-dating events catered specifically for younger men searching for older women.

Yet, while oodles of women of a certain age are revelling in the attention from the younger blokes, there are still plenty of ladies who aren't that into baby-sitting their dates. Which, unfortunately for them, means that the dating game has become a little tougher.

This is all according to my bombshell single friend Katelyn, who has an interesting theory on the age-old age debate ...

http://blogs.smh.com.au/lifestyle/asksam/archives/2008/11/men_and_the_agegap_not_subbed.html


tangy_zizzle  said about 3 years ago:

women peak sexually about 40

you mean 30 I think.


anok  said about 3 years ago:

isn't it women at 32, men at 18?

your link doesn't work.


tangy_zizzle  said about 3 years ago:

isn't it a worthless piece of ''information'' ?


Angelic  said about 3 years ago:

I wish I could peak now. any green around?



louis  said about 3 years ago:

FAIL


mrsjackwhite  said about 3 years ago:

whats the male equivalent of a cougar?


sister  said about 3 years ago:

a sleazebag.


Modi  said about 3 years ago:

How can older women find dating more difficult?

If they want men their own age, surely the tendency for their contemporaries to date younger men should mean there are more left for them in their own peer group?


anonymous  said about 3 years ago:

but don't older men want younger women as well?


red menace  said about 3 years ago:

she just says 40 for women because she's feathering her own nest (in expectation of a parade of young guys after some)


hillsonghoods  said about 3 years ago:

Finding logical inconsistencies in Samantha Brett's journalism is like shooting fish in a barrel, isn't it?


mrsjackwhite  said about 3 years ago:

anonymous said 1 minute ago:
but don't older men want younger women as well?

in my experience, yes.


nicko_mcbrain  said about 3 years ago:

''but don't older men want younger women as well?''

no.

it's okay if they look young, but.


mrsjackwhite  said about 3 years ago:

HA! They do so.


Modi  said about 3 years ago:

Oh. Oooooh.

OH!!!

Sorry. I didn't realise it was Sam.

Can't get a root? Poor Sam.


Modi  said about 3 years ago:

whitey, the idea of a young trophy wife is fun.

The reality is less appealing.


gunshot_glitter  said about 3 years ago:

For a second I thought this was your rant bee's, not a quote from the eejit that blogs. Are you posting this because you were surrounded by ''cougars'' last week at dinner :-P


anonymous  said about 3 years ago:

sam should go pamito, that would fix her problems.


Manhattan  said about 3 years ago:

I see so many incredibly stunning ''older'' women these days. I don't blame the young lads for getting hot and bothered.


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aloha  said about 3 years ago:

GILF.


Modi  said about 3 years ago:

lower is 24. I have thirty years in which to play.


annehelena  said about 3 years ago:

Haha, my upper is 24.


Modi  said about 3 years ago:

It's a good rule of thumb. Bearing in mind that phrase comes form a law stating a man could beat his wife with a stick no thicker than his own thumb.


annehelena  said about 3 years ago:

Well, I'm in the best relationship in the whole world ever with a man older than my 'upper', so suck on that, sex maths.


Modi  said about 3 years ago:

Do any universities offer a Bachelor of Sex Maths?


annehelena  said about 3 years ago:

Coordinator: Modi.


101010101010101  said about 3 years ago:

Sex Baths?! I thought they closed that place down!


basil seal  said about 3 years ago:

Modi said 22 minutes ago: Do any universities offer a Bachelor of Sex Maths?
annehelena said 22 minutes ago: Coordinator: Modi.

where can i take the class on maths models?

(try the veal, &c.)


Modi  said about 3 years ago:

The tutorials for irregular equations are very popular


Modi  said about 3 years ago:

before I toddle off to bed, remember what the English say, and don't forget to


101010101010101  said about 3 years ago:


annehelena  said about 3 years ago:

HER FOOT IS MISSING!!!!


specialgirl  said about 3 years ago:

I'm a bit confused about the mathematical determination of a cougar as well as the ''upper' & ''lower'' calculations.

can someone explain it with a base figure of say 40 pls?


statsbot  said about 3 years ago:

You are 40 (for the sake of argument).

Your younger limit = half of 40 + 7 = 27.

For you to be at someone's younger limit,

Younger limit = half of x + 7 = 40. X is 66.


statsbot  said about 3 years ago:

Short answer: 27 to 66. Surely you can find someone you like in that range?


number_nine  said about 3 years ago:

HEB you are a creep.

Now i must dickhead the bot.

why, why, why?


specialgirl  said about 3 years ago:

thanks statsbot - now Modi's post is explained.


andydepressant  said about 3 years ago:

Bearing in mind that phrase comes form a law stating a man could beat his wife with a stick no thicker than his own thumb.

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I prefer to believe that this refers to measuring something with your thumb.


Manhattan  said about 3 years ago:

I may or may not have shamelessly flirted with a beautiful 22 year old boy recently. Ahem.


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